For Married men: Do u still remember your first love?

Filed under: nnxj.com — mike @ March 16, 2010 edit
  • It was 1981, my thoughts were short my hair was long
    Caught somewhere between a boy and man
    She was seventeen and she was far from in-between
    It was summertime in Northern Michigan

    Splashing through the sand bar
    Talking by the campfire
    It's the simple things in life, like when and where
    We didn't have no internet
    But man I never will forget
    The way the moonlight shined upon her hair

    And we were trying different things
    We were smoking funny things
    Making love out by the lake to our favorite song
    Sipping whiskey out the bottle, not thinking 'bout tomorrow
    Singing Sweet home Alabama all summer long
    Singing Sweet home Alabama all summer long

    Catching Walleye from the dock
    Watching the waves roll off the rocks
    She'll forever hold a spot inside my soul
    We'd blister in the sun
    We couldn't wait for night to come
    To hit that sand and play some rock and roll

    While we were trying different things
    And we were smoking funny things
    Making love out by the lake to our favorite song
    Sipping whiskey out the bottle, not thinking 'bout tomorrow
    Singing Sweet Home Alabama all summer long
    Singing Sweet Home Alabama all summer long

    Now nothing seems as strange as when the leaves began to change
    Or how we thought those days would never end
    Sometimes I'll hear that song and I'll start to sing along
    And think man I'd love to see that girl again


  • yes .because he is my hubby.


  • I was married 9 years ago. My wife was the first love for me and after the divorce of nine years i still remember her and entered in any other relationship so far.


  • yeah but i cant say anycos the one with whom i spent 3 yrs was not true to me... also he neva disclosed his feelings to me but yes he remembered that gal and probably he wud b remembering everyone of them with whom he slept and I was the worst i know but as i said he was neva true to me so he lied to me to the core... anywys m not married and m not a man but answered what i felt


  • my partner tells me of his first love often :(


  • yes.
    I lost that as I was not having guts to face my Parents.


  • Yeah, she stops by maybe once a month. She doesn't get to town much given the new husband and all. But when she can she'll stop in for a visit.

    I do remember sitting on her front porch in the mid-summer heat of the night, talking about what we were going to do tomorrow- got to the pool, go hang out with her friends or my friends, maybe just sit and play nintendo at her house. Other times we would talk about having kids in a few years( I wanted them sooner than later, but she thought 12 and 15 was probably too young for that kind of a commitment.) Sometimes we'd sit there until 10 or 11 o'clock at night(later many evenings) holding eachother and wishing the world would leave us alone to love eachother the way we wanted to. Sometimes her mom would wake up about that time and let their little dog out to go potty. (I hated that little ankle biter. It broke my heart when I found out he had died a few years later) On the most unfortunate evenings one of her older siblings would come in while we were sitting there(They were all 21+ yrs of age and mocked our "puppy love" incessantly) Yeah. Those were the best days of my life. Enchanted dreams of the years that lie ahead without the pain of the reality of lost loves to invoke reservation. Ofcourse I would have to go home some time every night, usually I left on my 30 hr bike ride sometime before 2 am. I hated to go home. While those days accounted for the best of my life, my return home would also define them as the worst of my life. After over a decade in the real world those people seem to have been right- you gotta take the good with the bad. But when I recall those days, my mind always seems to focus on the front porch of 1500 S Beacon st., Somewhere, USA.


  • sorry not a married man but my first love was my worst and if he still thinks about me I'll punch him in the face.


  • Yep.....and really sorry that I did not have the relationship skills then to make that one last.


  • No one can ever forget their first love..same in my case also..she s so precious..he thought itself takes me bac to my old memories..no one can forget their first love..wen i said no one..it means any man who had truely loved his girl..but wen he gets attached to a new woman..it all depends on the new woman to keep his mind n thoughts around her..by her act n carin..she can rEduce his thoughts f his first love to a limit..make him feel tat he s special..give him all wat he wants..he ll stick to u..dont ever make him think tat..the old one was better..if u can stoP tat thought f his..there it goes..success s urs:)


  • do i ever.........
    been married to her for the last 33yrs


  • Yes I do.. Hope she too from heaven.. (she is no more)


  • my wife is my first love







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